"Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God." (1 John 4:7)
The greatest power in the world is love. The love-way is the right way. Jesus didn't get offended at those who abused and tortured Him; rather He said,
"...Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do..."
So, why would a Christian get so offended by someone who said something against him and say, "In the Name of Jesus Christ, I command their house to burn; I command fire upon their heads"; that's unwise.
Some people go the the extent of studying a book of curses to learn how to curse others, despite what the Bible says,
"Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not."
As a Christian, you're called to bless. James 3:11-12 asks,
"Doth a fountain send forth at the same place as sweet water and bitter? Can the fig tree, my brethren, bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain yield salt water and fresh."
Never be so offended to the point of pouring invectives on others. Remember, you have a wholesome tongue that speaks healing, life and righteousness; so use it only to bless. Don't let anger dominate or rule you. Those who are ruled by anger can't handle spiritual authority; they can't use the Name of Jesus for the higher things of life. Ephesians 4:26 says,
"Be ye angry and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath."
You must tame and dominate anger, as well as impatience, frustration, and hatred. You were born to love; refuse to allow anything to agitate you to act otherwise. Even those who set themselves up to be your enemies, according to the words of Jesus, are still deserving of love:
"'But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.'"
We're to love others selflessly and unconditionally as Christ has loved us:
(1 John 3:16)
"Hereby perceive we the love of God, because He laid down His life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren."
Dear Father, I thank You for Your love, which is the hallmark of my life. I love unconditionally, because that's my nature in Christ. I live in peace, joy, and blessings, free of every unnecessary weight of anger and malice, in Jesus' Name. Amen.
Further Study: 1 Corinthians 13:1-8 NIV